Hola Tammie
Welcome to the forum. I live in the province of Malaga - we just recently moved from the Coast to the area of Monda, Co?n, Alhaurin el Grande - the country 😊
The Costa del Sol is a vibrant and busy area - although Spain seems to be slowing down somewhat at the moment (the property market anyway), we lived on the coast for 10 years and enjoyed every minute, although over the years we have tired of the hustle and bustle and decided to move inland.
Live here can get tough if you are out of work as you can’t just go for hand outs, no-one here will help you (much like the UK!), however, Spain will make you a strong person and once settled you will enjoy your way of life, it is a far cry from the cultural lifestyles of the UK - I personally, love living here and like everything the Spanish stand for.
All the best on your research for the area you want to live.
I think you should ask yourself a series of questions to help you determine what you want from your move; such as
Do you need full/part time work
Do you need to be near public transport
Do you drive
Do you need to be near schools for children
If so, can they speak any Spanish, will they a miss a year from school just because they cannot understand the language
Are you in a rush (the Spanish generally are not LOL!) to get things done, Spain may annoy you for the ma?ana syndrome!
Country/Beach
😊