In part reply to my own Q…
I went to the local National Police Station (where they do all extranjero certs/stuff)...
Got a form to apply for ‘non resident cert’ for friend.
It seems tho the police are not interested at all if you are non-resident (and seemed a bit put out that they have to do the paperwork), but yes, a cert can be obtained by paying the small fee, providing copies of passport but you also need a ‘solicitude’ - i.e letter from the bank saying they require it.
It really seems yet another bit of red tape. But is incresaingly becoming necessary as more and more banks are sticking to the tax office/legal requirements and are freezing accounts left right and centre!