My hold up was the marriage certificate. After much cajoling of the Italian Consulate in Los Angles, they finally sent the OK to the commune in Italy to issue a marriage certificate. I waited 6 weeks after handing them an apostilled US marriage certificate in person at the consulate. It would have been 4 more weeks, but the very nice woman at the commune in the town where my husband is from helped us a lot - by emailing and basically demanding to know what the hold up was.
Oh yeah, then my application was rejected, because of the missing marriage certificate. They weren’t even supposed to process it without the Italian cert. But they did. Then I was informed I would need to appeal, with a lawyer, and that would take…well, a long time. Fortunately, I had made another appointment a month before, and I just took all my paperwork again, and copies of the old paperwork, plus an international, Italian, AND US marriage cert, plus the rejection statement and explained very nicely that my case should not have been processed. The woman this time was very kind and said, why don’t we just process it again now. I am pretty sure the regulation is to wait one month after the rejection is issued. But oh happy day, she over looked this.
Mind you, I don’t have the card yet, but I have an assigned number. My god, it’s been a struggle, but I finally got a NIE!